When he’s out with his friends, you can’t help dreaming he would stay home instead. Sweet, yeah? Sickly sweet.
If you’re with a man whose world only revolves around you, I’m afraid there’s something wrong with the picture. Moreover, your world can be suffocating. Because a guy being with his group of friends is an innate thing a guy should be. There are things only guys can understand that we girls don’t. Unless, of course, you’re a bit distrustful with the group of people he goes with.
And this is exactly the same thing for us, girls. While we’re out with our girlfriends giggling and chatting, that’s because we’re having a good time, the time we need that we can’t have when we’re with our boys. And we really need our time.
My thought may be a little hazy to you. But here are three things you should understand:
1. HIS TIME with his friends – We may not understand it deeply but he needs it just as much as we need it. Never deprive him of this. And he’ll do the same thing with you.
2. OUR TIME together with friends – As a couple out with our friends is a fun thing to do.
Our friends? We can’t just ignore them. Their existence in our lives is one thing that helps us go on. That’s why it always means a lot to gather around and eat together, cook together, and learn from each other’s stories.
3. MY TIME with him – In matters of intimacy, “my time is my time. Nobody can steal that from me. It’s only for me and me ALONE.” It’s what keeps our love alive.
Well, maybe then you can write on your schedule book HIS TIME, OUR TIME, MY TIME now; then you two can make an agreement about it.
Nothing really is a perfect relationship. It takes painful steps to survive. Yet even at the worst, you still stay rather than just slip it away.
